Quotes by Shannon L. Alder

That was the problem with love. It never happened on your terms, it happened on theirs.

If you continue to dig the same hole in the same place in your life, eventually you will be standing in a grave.

The reason everything falls apart around me, but I don’t is because my angels keep me standing up.

There is nothing worse then being surrounded by a bunch of people telling you to do what is right, when they cant define that definition, without a lot of hatred and judgment behind it.

Acceptable hypocrisy is often called politeness.

The price tag that you put on your soul will determine the people and circumstances in which you find yourself.

If you choose to be fearless, then be fearlessly authentic not an imitation of someone you envy.

It is not the homeless, mentally ill or extremely cunning people that we have to be afraid of. When someone loses everything that meant something to them is when people should get very afraid. A person that has nothing to lose is the scariest person on earth.

Insecure people only eclipse your sun because they’re jealous of your daylight and tired of their dark, starless nights.

To be a strong and empathetic person always requires us to trust that God will send angels to the peoples heart we tried to reach, but couldnt.

Hold onto the wings of angels that pass your way. They fly higher than any army that has none.

Empowered Women 101: A confident woman doesnt make her whole life purpose her man. She understands that he is her counter part to achieving whatever she is to accomplish on this earth with the blessings and talents God has given her. He is part of the plan, not the whole plan.

I am not perfect, but if I looked perfect to everyone I must have been rocking imperfect perfectly to a few imperfect souls that seek imperfection vs. perfection, in an imperfect world where God asks us to seek perfection for our imperfect souls.

Why would anyone want perfection when growth comes from flaws?

Love has a way of making the sane insane and the insane normal.

Your tears are never invisible---there is always an insecure woman that lights up when you point them out.

Learn the difference between a person that would have never given up on you and a person you pushed away.

Choosing a mate is not a matter of can they do the job, rather will they. A partner of potential doesnt make for a happy marriage. Their actions have to be in line with your needs.

It is not until you find yourself lost in the silence that you will learn to let go because everyone has let go of you.

Addiction by any other name is love.