Quotes by Shannon L. Alder

“A competitive and insecure woman will tell you that “true love” is never giving up on someone youre in love with. A confident and spiritual woman knows that “moving on” doesn’t mean you never loved someone. She realizes that letting go is what God needs her to do because both your happiness and hers requires taking different journeys for spiritual growth. Letting go is sometimes the hardest thing, but it is the most “real love” you will ever experience.”

“When you think this pain is all you deserve, you are right. You are the only one that can decide how long you will walk in hell.”

“There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close it.”

“There is no perfection, only beautiful versions of brokenness.”

“When you let go of control and commit yourself to happiness, it is so easy to offer compassion and forgiveness. This propels you from the past, into the present. People that are negative, spend so much time trying to control situations and blame others for their problems. Committing yourself to staying positive is a daily mantra that states, “I have control over how I plan to react, feel, think and believe in the present. No one guides the tone of my life, except me!”

“Sensitive people usually love deeply and hate deeply. They dont know any other way to live than by extremes because thier emotional theromastat is broken.”