Quotes by Tony Parsons

to love means to realize there is a time to let the beloved one go

...all that we do is governed by the law of opposites in which every so-called positive act is exactly and equally balanced by its opposite.

Im not saying its what I would have wanted. But dont you see? We fuck up our lives again and again and its always our children who pick up the bill. We move on to new relationships, always starting over, always thinking weve got another chance to get it right, its the kids from all these broken marriages who pay the price. They - my son, your daughters, all the millions like them - are carrying around wounds that are going to last a lifetime. It has to stop.

Its painful and its messy. But sometimes you just have to make the break and start again.

Sometimes the fog in his eyes would clear, that fog caused by the pain and the killers of pain, and when it cleared, I saw regret and fear in those eyes swimming with tears and I was convinced that this was it, this was the end, this was surely the end.

Cancer seems a high price to pay for an innocuous-looking habit. You get into smoking and you are robbed of the last 25 years of your life. Some cocky souls will say, Ah yes, but they are the worst 25 years. Nobody feels like that in a cancer ward. There are no cocky souls in a cancer ward. But theres a lot of pain, not just of the excruciating physical kind that they shoot you full of morphine to smother. There are a lot of tears. All round. It is hard to say goodbye to the people you love. And its scary. Cancer wards have a way of knocking the cockiness out of you. And for what? Another cigarette?

The thing about cancer is that it can always exceed your worst expectations. There is something pornographic about cancers ability to confound your imagination. Whatever new obscenity cancer comes up with to torment and torture you, it can always do worse tomorrow.

My principal motivation is supporting my family, which is not a bad reason for getting up in the morning. Thats always been my motivation - to take care of the people who rely on me.

I box for four hours a week and my diet is pretty healthy.

Largely this is a class thing - writers tend to be cosseted little middle-class kiddies who think that the world owes them a royalty cheque. But just doing it - being in your room for years on end, locked in your head, alone with invented ghosts - it weakens and softens the body. And I know I cant just live in my head.