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Quotes by Steven Rowley

Cal opens a drawer, pulls out a sketch pad and charcoal and sets them down on a drafting table.Lets draw.I smile the way I did as a child when receiving a fresh box of 64 Crayola crayons, unabashedly showing all my teeth. I remember how much I used to love to draw, and I wonder why I dont do it anymore. I write, I guess. I draw with words, but when I see Cals pad and charcoal, Im overwhelmed with the feeling that its not the same. I use my words, my artists charcoal to describe what Im thinking. He draws with an imperfect fluidity, pausing only occasionally to shade the drawing with his thumb or brush the paper with the back of his hands. He listens and nods and doesnt interrupt. And when Im done speaking he looks at the drawing, and his eyes get really big. Slowly, he turns his pad around for me to see. My heart stops and then starts. Yes, I say. Its perfect. Alive with added detail and beautiful Inuit soulfulness I couldnt have even imagined sitting outside in my car. My fear is gone. Theres a tingling in my skin, like I can feel the thousand needle pricks to come. I am alive.

We bring champagne to Franklin and Jeffrey, and I offer a final toast, Wishing you all good things in your life together. Short, simple, to the point. I look at Meredith, relaxed in her ivory gown, my sister is all grown up. Im grateful we did our growing up together.

Jenny and I once talked about how we manage to live despite the knowledge that we are all going to die. Whats the point of it all? Why bother getting up in the morning when faced with such futility? Or is it the promise of death that inspires life? That we must grab what we can while theres still time? Is it the not knowing if today is the day that keeps us going? But what if this is the day? What if the hour is here? How do you stand? How do you breathe? How do you go on?

The sun rises with a surprising intensity, a sign that June Gloom has cleared the runway and July is on approach. We are both tired, and it wouldve been to return to our bed after our morning walk, read from a book maybe, drift lazily in and out of sleep. But the sun beckons with a blazingly confrontational message: There is darkness, but there is also light. To stay in bed would be to embrace the darkness, the seizures, the octopus. To go outside is to embrace the light.

Dogs are always good and full of selfless love. They are undiluted vessels of joy who never, ever deserve anything bad that happens to them.

Okay. I can feel the letters vomit off my tongue.O.K.A. Y.I watch the vet insert the syringe into the catheter and inject the second drug. And then the adventures come flooding back:The puppy farm.The gentle untying of the shoelace.THIS! IS! MY! HOME! NOW!Our first night together.Running on the beach.Sadie and Sophie and Sophie Dee.Shared ice-cream cones.Thanksgivings.Tofurky.Car rides.Laughter.Eye rain.Chicken and rice.Paralysis.Surgery.Christmases.Walks.Dog parks.Squirrel chasing.Naps.Snuggling.Fishful Thinking.The adventure at sea.Gentle kisses.Manic kisses.More eye rain.So much eye rain.Red ball.The veterinarian holds a stethoscope up to Lilys chest, listening for her heartbeat.All dogs go to heaven.Your mothers name is Witchie-Poo. I stroke Lily behind her ears the way that used to calm her. Look for her.OH FUCK IT HURTS.I barely whisper. She will take care of you.

What do you think of when you think of mourning? Jenny asks.The question snaps me back to attention. I answer without really thinking. I guess Funeral Blues by W.H. Auden. I think it was Auden. I suppose thats not very original.I dont know it.Its a poem.I gathered.Im just clarifying. Its not a blues album.Jenny ignores my swipe at her intelligence.Does your response need to be original? Isnt that what poetry is for, for the poet to express something so personal that it ultimately is universal?I shrug. Who is Jenny, even new Jenny, to say what poetry is for? Who am I for that matter?Why do you thin of that poem in particular?Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone, / Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone, / Silence the pianos and with muffled drum / Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come. I learned the poem in college and it stuck.

But until this night, she had never once actually wet the bed. And now that she has, we just lie there in the accident, and the minutes of the clock keep changing, and the love I have for her keeps growing, and we both keep drawing breath. What was so horrible about it? Why had I always been so angry? What was my need to always be right? To win every argument with her? To out-stubborn a dog? And just like that, all the anger is gone. Released like the emptying of a bladder into soft cotton sheets as we lie in the wetness.

Dogs, on the other hand... dogs have pure souls. Look at me. I grab her chin and look straight into her eyes. Dogs are always good and full of selfless love. They are undiluted vessels of joy who never, ever deserve anything bad that happens to them. Especially you. Since the day I met you, you have done nothing but make my life better in every possible way. Do you understand?

We’re too often guilty of thinking that our parents arrived on this planet as fully functioning adults on the day that we were born. That they don’t have pasts of their own prior to our birth. That the father is not also a son, that the mother is not also a child. My mother had a tough beginning, enduring things I know little about. And yet I more often discount her pain and overvalue mine.

The very best thing about dogs is how they just know when you need them most, and they’ll drop everything that they’re doing to sit with you awhile.

Because dogs live in the present. Because dogs dont hold grudges. Because dogs let go of all their anger daily, hourly, and never let it fester. They absolve and forgive with each passing minute. Every turn of a corner is the opportunity for a clean slate. Every bounce of a ball brings joy and the promise of a fresh chase.

When I held my new puppy in my arms, I broke down in tears. Because I had fallen in love. Not somewhat in love. Not partly in love. Not in a limited amount. I fell fully in love with a creature I had known for all of nine hours.

There are times when Los Angeles is the most magical city on Earth. When the Santa Ana winds sweep through and the air is warm and so, so clear. When the jacaranda trees bloom in the most brilliant lilac violet. When the ocean sparkles on a warm February day and youre pushing fine grains of sand through your bare toes while the rest of the country is hunkered down under blankets slurping soup. But other times, like when the jacaranda trees drop their blossoms in an eerie purple rain, Los Angeles feels like only a half-formed dream. Like perhaps the city was founded as a strip mall in the early 1970s and has no real reason to exist. An afterthought from the designer of some other, better city. A playground made only for attractive people to eat expensive salads.