Quotes by Shannon L. Alder

We were meant to rescue each other, not cut down the forest to rescue one.

Mental illness is not a fraternity or a social club for like minds. It is its own religion to each person that has it. Their mind is their pastor, their feelings are their scriptures and their delusions are their own bible story. To break them free, is to break their faith in signs. That is why so many feel lost.

Insecure people often falsify the past, in order to make the future pure.

Judgement is always based on experience and sometimes you will battle a persons history first, before commonsense will ever win the war.

Empowered Women 101: The moment you ignore bad behavior, in order to win a persons affection you have not won anything, but a person that has behavioral problems. If you couldnt fix their behavior before you won him, why could you fix him now?

Empowered Women 101: Everyone wants to be a princess, but you werent the first princess in his life. They scrubbed his floors, washed his workout clothes, picked up his dirty socks and dealt with his issues. Always remember that history leaves a pattern of what to expect. A real woman knows that the bible is a motivator, but the real instruction manual is observing the last womans struggle.

Sometimes the simplest solution out of conflict is becoming someone’s friend, instead of saying goodbye forever.

The more you talk about it, rehash it, rethink it, cross analyze it, debate it, respond to it, get paranoid about it, compete with it, complain about it, immortalize it, cry over it, kick it, defame it, stalk it, gossip about it, pray over it, put it down or dissect its motives it continues to rot in your brain. It is dead. It is over. It is gone. It is done. It is time to bury it because it is smelling up your life and no one wants to be near your rotted corpse of memories and decaying attitude. Be the funeral director of your life and bury that thing!

Getting even with the person that broke your heart will never give you peace. The only thing that will heal your wounds is believing that God loves you enough to bring someone else into your life to respect you and love you in the way you deserve!

God is the only one that wont disappoint you. Everyone else is percentages of your peace.

The most compassionate and peaceful thing you can do for yourself and others is to let go of the past, let go of the anger, let go of trying to hurt people that wronged you. There are thousands of people dying from cancer that wish they had someone to care about them and be with them during their final days. There are children being sold into sex trafficking and are hoping someone would rescue them. There are homeless people that wish they had something warm to wear or eat. There is an entire species being wiped out because not enough people care about our oceans. Today, remember that there is someone praying for the very things you take for granted. Spend your effort where God needs you to be--on the front lines of the war on earth, not on the battlefields of the past.

Have you ever stopped to think that maybe God isnt trying to save you? Maybe, he is trying to remove all that hurt and anger inside of you so you can save everyone in this situation? Maybe, today you could be that peaceful warrior. Maybe, for once in your life you could not react, but respond. God is waiting for you to be his hero and heal people. When will you love, not hate? When will you show the best part of who you are? You have the power to be someone great. You can show kindness, compassion, mercy and love if you want to. You have been running your entire life thinking peace is found in what you hurt or cut away from your life. Have you ever considered peace is found in what you love, restore, bring kindness to and forgive? Maybe, today is your day to be someone different--someone the world can say was different because they cared about everyones feelings.

Somethings worth having defy logic. They come with obstacles, challenges, battles and long periods of wandering in the dark. Your path wont make sense to your family or friends. People will weigh in with their life rules and fears, but in the end it is your life. That pull you feel is real and often your intuition. It nags at you everyday. Follow it for as far as it takes you because life is too short to dwell on indecision, while you forget to live. Take a chance because if you have a good heart God isnt going to abandon you. He will travel wherever you need to go, in order to find the missing pieces of your soul.

The best part of the gospel is you get to take it with you wherever your heart lands.

When you know what you want you will be excited about it and give every ounce of effort to making it come true. No excuse or fear will get in your way because peace is found in focus.

There are many types of marriage relationships and all of them can work, but none is sadder than the one that doesnt represent peace in your heart.

You will know it is love not when you think about them all the time or want to be with them, but when you worry about them and you want their approval and happiness.

Praying for the people that hurt you may not change them, but it will change you.

Peace is not about who you can live with, but who you cant live without.

To find the peace you never had you will need to do the one fearful thing that you have never done.