Quotes by Pamela Meyer

“People who are moving and traveling about a lot definitely want a quick way to find friends and to make connections. The Internet can do that.”

Lying is a cooperative act. Think about it. A lie has no power whatsoever by its mere utterance. Its power emerges when someone else agrees to believe the lie.

As someone who specializes in deception, Ill tell you this much: When someone insistently implores, Believe me, dont. Pleading believe me or trust me - insisting to people that you are telling the truth - is a tell-tale sign that you probably arent.

Business is a battlefield. You need to be able to go to battle with your team members. Like the military. Know them, trust them, and know who youre working with.

Speaking of trust, ever since I wrote this book, Liespotting, no one wants to meet me in person anymore - no, no, no, no, no. They say, Its okay. Well email you. I cant even get a coffee date at Starbucks. My husbands like, Honey, deception? Maybe you could have focused on cooking. How about French cooking?

One-year-olds learn concealment. Five-year-olds lie outright: they manipulate via flattery. Nine-year-olds - masters of the cover-up. By the time you enter college, youre going to lie to your mom in one out of every five interactions.

Genuine expressions of emotion rarely persist longer than five seconds and almost never longer than 10. A fixed smile is likely to conceal anger, anxiety, or some other negative emotion.

Con men look for human frailty to exploit. This is most often greed. Trump found a different vice: anger. The emotional are always the most susceptible to manipulation.

Contempt is the only asymmetrical expression in the muscular facial system: Disgust, fear, happiness, surprise and anger typically express themselves symmetrically. Contempt is marked by one lip corner pulled up and in a dismissive sneer.