Quotes by Nancy Willard

“These activities are causing significant emotional distress to the victims. In some, they are resulting in increasing reports of suicide. In many cases, it contributes to depression, school avoidance and myriad other consequences related to emotional abuse.”

“Ive seen reports of children having to change schools. Or children committing suicide. So, ah, yeah, the off-campus activities can have significant harm.”

“A lot of this experimenting and writing and connecting with other people is a very foundational aspect of coming of age, figuring out who I am, presenting information important to me and getting feedback on that. Unfortunately, its now a process theyre going through in public places.”

“Young people dont seem to make a connection with the vulnerability that they can get into by posting themselves publicly.”

“They are more likely to do things online than they would in the real world. Its the You cant see me, I cant see you phenomenon. Theres a perception of invisibility.”

“But kids who dont have positive real-world relationships will use online social communities to find those kinds of relationships. Theyre more vulnerable to the dangers present there.”

“We are seeing online social norms that support really irresponsible communication. Kids think that on the Internet I have free speech and I have the right to say what I want without regard to the harm it may cause, which is obviously not true and is a message that parents need to get across to children.”

“[This is especially true for teens who post sexy profiles.] They may hook up with a teen their own age, ... But theres also ample evidence these are hunting grounds for older men.”

“How do you establish online friends by talking about the weather?”

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