Quotes by Miya Yamanouchi

By all means be submissive in the bedroom (if you are that way inclined), but dont be submissive to life. Being lifes bitch is no fun at all. Life may play up in many ways, but its up to you to take control, take charge and put life in its place.

Even if we have ourselves so fully convinced that we are on the right track because we desperately want to believe that the specific direction we have chosen is the correct one, if the universe disagrees with our choices, it will not be shy in telling us so.

I do not subscribe to the abuse victim or survivor labelling mentality. I have experienced every kind of abuse imaginable and I am and always have been the most happy-go-lucky, positive and life affirming person around. Your labels do not serve you, so dont use them as an excuse to be miserable. You have a beautiful life to live, so accept the beauty and start living.

Our experiences always teach us something. If the experience is bad, then the lesson is even more powerful and meaningful. Every unfortunate incident makes us stronger and better equipped to handle new challenges.

Instead of complaining about your situation, actually do something about it. Playing poor me just aint sexy.

Whenever you hear yourself or others telling you you cannot do something, do that particular something, and notice how quickly everyone shuts the hell up.

Prove yourself and others wrong everyday by redefining who you THINK you are, through performing actions you would normally deem impossible or uncharacteristic of you.

When you notice yourself desperately trying to think of an excuse to avoid a new experience out of FEAR, ANXIETY or INSECURITY, make the decision to say: sure, Ill do it , and see how your life improves.

Be thankful to those who refuse to help you, for they force you to summon upon your warrior within.

Your past history is NOT an excuse.

The saying flattery gets you everywhere appalls me. If youre going to pay someone a compliment make sure its 100% genuine or not at all.-Flattery is deception and who wants to be lied to?

Threatening a current or former partner isnt passion, or love, or heartache. Its violence, its abuse and its a crime.

Male social conditioning encourages boys and men to aim to bed as many women as possible....so much so, that their self esteem and self worth become intertwined with the number of sexual partners they have; and when that number is low or even zero, so too is their self-confidence.

We need feminism because degrading phrases like walk of shame are commonplace in our social vocabulary, yet these are only applied to women; whereas men in the same situation are praised by their peers and seen as nothing more than a guy who got lucky, by the rest of society.

By all means be submissive in the bedroom (if you are that way inclined), but dont be submissive to life. Being lifes bitch is no fun at all. Life may play up in many ways, but its up to you to take control, take charge and show life whos really calling the shots.

Safe sex is an act of self love.

Exactly what are you wanting to teach your children? -How to love and care for themselves, or how to neglect and abandon themselves? Self-sarifice is NOT setting a good example.

If telling men dont rape instead of telling women dont get raped, is like telling thieves dont steal instead of home owners to lock your houses, why dont we hear more victims of home invasion being told you got what you deserved for having such a beautiful house on display for everyone to see ???

To every guy who tries to say that we have already achieved equality for the sexes, if this were true, you wouldnt be told to man up, be a man, stop being a p*#%y, harden the fuck up, toughen up, boys dont cry, dont be such a girl, stop being a wimp. As long as this type of language still exists in our society, then gender equality, my friends, has in fact not been achieved after all.

Women arent my competition because male attention and sexual objectification are not prizes for me.