Quotes by John Bytheway

If our testimonies are strong onthis point and if we feel the absolute assurance that God loves us, we will change our questons. We wont ask, Why did this happen? or Why doesnt God care about me? Instead, our questions will become, What can I learn from this experience? or How does the Lord want me to handle this?

It is better to be respected than it is to be popular. Popularity ends on yearbook day, but respect lasts forever.

you cannot find happiness, outside the plan of happiness!

The best way to prepare for death is to live life to its fullest.

Everyone would like to have stronger faith. By themselves, the scriptures may not strengthen your faith, but being faithful to what they teach, does. In other words, faith cannot be separated from faithfulness.

And I, Nephi, took one of the daughters of Ishmael to wife. Well Mr. Go-And-Do just went and did!

If someone were to ask whether communications skills or meekness is most important to a marriage, Id answer meekness, hands down. You can be a superb communicator but still never have the humility to ask, Is it I? Communication skills are no substitute for Christlike attributes. As Dr. Douglas Brinley has observed, Without theological perspectives, secular exercises designed to improve our relationship and our communication skills (the common tools of counselors and marriage books) will never work any permanent change in ones heart: they simply develop more clever and skilled fighters!

If youre trying to be miserable, its important you dont have any goals. No school goals, personal goals, family goals. Your only objective each day should be to inhale and exhale for sixteen hours before you go to bed again. Dont read anything informative, dont listen to anything useful, dont do anything productive. If you start achieving goals, you might start to feel a sense of excitement, then you might want to set another goal, and then your miserable mornings are through. To maintain your misery, the idea of crossing off your goals should never cross your mind.

In the city, we work until quitting time. On the farm, we work until the job is finished.

An important part of dating is communicating. We communicate by sharing our thoughts, ideas, and feelings. We enjoy being with someone when we have an easy time communicating or when we have a lot to talk about.

Expressions of affection, like putting your arm around someones shoulder, holding hands, or giving a kiss good night, involve the principle of honesty.

God already knows what were made of, but perhaps He wants us to learn what were made of. I think we would all agree that we learn more from our tough times than from our easy times.

Curiosity, rationalization, and laziness are no match against courage, self-control, and mental toughness.

While I am aware of no counsel on whether kissing should be reserved only for post-mission dating or courtship, I am aware of plenty of counsel concerning honesty in our actions and treating others with respect and kindness. Casual attitudes about expressions of affection such as kissing can cause much grief and heartache.