Quotes by Christina Baldwin

“Change is the constant, the signal for rebirth, the egg of the phoenix”

“Journal writing is a voyage to the interior”

“How we remember, what we remember, and why we remember form the most personal map of our individuality.”

“Wonder is not a Pollyanna stance, not a denial of reality; wonder is an acknowledgment of the power of the mind to transform.”

“Creatures of a very particular making, we need to know the cultural blinders that narrow our world view as well as the psychological blinders that narrow our view of our personal experience.”

“Spiritual love is a position of standing with one hand extended into the universe and one hand extended into the world, letting ourselves be a conduit for passing energy.”

Journal writing is a voyage to the interior.

When story and behavior are consistent, we relax; when story and behavior are inconsistent, we get tense. We have a deep psychological need for our stories and behaviors to be consistent. We need to be able to trust the story, because its the lens through which we see reality. We will go to great lengths in the attempt to make a story that explains an action and supports or restores consistency. If we cannot make story and action fit, we either have to make a new story or change the action. ... [But] The drive for consistency and the ability to redefine abhorrent action so it fits the story are very complex issues. We have a huge ability to continue believing stories we are told are true in order to stay comfortable with actions we dont want to change, or dont feel capable of changing.

As long as we share our stories, as long as our stories reveal our strengths and vulnerabilities to each other, we reinvigorte our understanding and tolerance for the little quirks of personality that in other circumstances would drive us apart. When we live in a family, a community, a country where we know each others true stories, we remember our capacity to lean in and love each other into wholeness. I have read the story of a tribe in southern Africa called the Babemba in which a person doing something wrong, something that destroys this delicate social net, brings all work in the village to a halt. The people gather around the offender, and one by one they begin to recite everything he has done right in his life: every good deed, thoughtful behavior, act of social responsibility. These things have to be true about the person, and spoken honestly, but the time-honored consequence of misbehavior is to appreciate that person back into the better part of himself. The person is given the chance to remember who he is and why he is important to the life of the vi

The ordinary stories of our ordinary lives have extraordinary gifts coded within them. . .

We make our lives bigger or smaller, more expansive or more limited, according to the interpretation of life that is our story.

When youre stuck in a spiral to change all aspects of the spin you need only to change one thing.

Change is the constant the signal for rebirth the egg of the phoenix.

Spiritual love is a position of standing with one hand extended into the universe and one hand extended into the world letting ourselves be a conduit for passing energy.

How we remember what we remember and why we remember form the most personal map of our individuality.

Forgiveness is the act of admitting we are like other people.

With compassion we see benevolently our own human condition and the condition of our fellow beings. We drop prejudice. We withhold judgment.