Quotes by Amy Chua

I am definitely a Type A personality, always rushing around, trying to do too much, not good at just lying on the beach. But Im so thankful for everything I have: wonderfully supportive parents and sisters, the best husband in the world, terrific students I love teaching and hanging out with, and above all, my two amazing daughters.

A lot of parents today are terrified that something they say to their children might make them feel bad. But, hey, if theyve done something wrong, they should feel bad. Kids with a sense of responsibility, not entitlement, who know when to experience gratitude and humility, will be better at navigating the social shoals of college.

In Chinese culture, it wouldnt occur to kids to question or talk back to their parents. In American culture, kids in books, TV shows and movies constantly score points with their snappy back talk. Typically, its the parents who need to be taught a life lesson - by their children.

“But just because you love something, I added to myself, doesnt mean youll ever be great. Not if you dont work. Most people stink at the things they love.”