Quotes by Ruth Ahmed

The alternatives in my life went through my mind. Unemployed, alone, despairing, watching daytime TV. That couldnt end well.Or helping people, like genuinely making a difference. Imagine waking up and doing that every day?

As the days dwindled towards the end of the week I knew only one thing: I couldnt return to our old life. Haroon had taken Honour and Al with him,

People dont really change, they just adapt to circumstances.

They say some couples are joined in heaven, and on Earth they look for their partner soul to be with.I knew I had found mine in her. And who can fight heaven?

The fires of hell were seventy times hotter than the fires of the iron.

I had to be an adult, be a father without a son, so for one last moment I needed to be a son who needed his mother.

Honour and I would have to create our world, live by our own rules. My family wasnt ready for her just yet. I didnt know if they ever would be.

Look, my son, she is so beautiful, she has fair skin and green eyes and brown hair.Shes English? I asked cheekily, holding the cheap photo print with trepidation. Which unfortunate victim had they found for me to marry in what backwater, unbeknownst that my heart was not for trading? Honour would quote Shakespeare to make a point; for me, it was always Rumi.La hawla wala kuwwat... May God protect us from such misfortune... you think I have lost my senses that I would marry you to a white girl? My mum used the word gori as an insult and yet when she talked about Billo she said Look how gori she is.Oh, Mum, the irony.Well, you seem pretty obsessed with green eyes and skin colour, I mumbled.She is gorgeous. Mum went on ignoring me. Think how beautiful your children, my grandchildren, will be? They will have cats eyes, just like Billo.Honour has fair skin and green eyes too, and just think how beautiful your grandchildren will be if theyre mixed race, I thought.I didnt say that to my mum, obviously.

You feel well, Ali? You have a very faraway look on your face, beta, my dad said. Like you have left your heart behind.He fixed me with eyes as liquid black as mine and for a moment I felt exposed, like he could see right through me. That irrational childhood thought that he could read my mind maybe.What nonsense, his heart is here with his mother and his family. Tell him, Ali, my mother said.Begum, this generation of boys and girls, you know how they are. My dad never said my mothers name; she was always Begum, the generic term for wife.

Her voice was erudite, interesting; the voice of someone who straddled two cultures with a surety and style that I wished my boyfriend could find. She was smart, funny, and, above all, completely capable of controlling her life and what happened to it.

My heart was in my mouth. I realised that I had no desire to know any more about her past. What was behind her made me feel sick, petrified. Only the future mattered now.

There was a time when I was lucky enough to believe that Theres this girl in Pakistan would be the worst five words that Al ever said to me. Years later, they would be totally eclipsed by They cant find a heartbeat.

Honour looked so much like a child herself, confined to bed, a white nightgown, like one of those maudlin Victorian dolls. Her cheeks were red, like someone had painted them, but I knew it was from rubbing, wiping away her melancholy.

Do you have a girlfriend?No, I said quickly.Deny Honour again. Peter only denied Jesus three times. I must have denied Honour like three thousand times.

I needed a fresh start, away from the memories that we had made for him, away from the home that didnt feel like my own anymore.Away from the people that had been ready to welcome him. Away from Honour and Ali.

Five words that were the hardest words I would ever have to say,Five pillars of my faith that couldnt save him that day.Five rivers, the Panj Aab, that didnt flow through his veins.Five minutes that changed our world forever.

Do you ever look up at the stars and try to contemplate the ends of the universe?

9/11 forced us to build another identity, to look deep and say who are we and what do we believe and is killing in the name of Islam part of that religion?No. No. No.

It was things like that I remembered about Ruby, the incongruity, the struggle to find herself.No matter what she wore though she was always Ruby, always herself.

The drugs took over and she fell asleep then.Only her face was visible, the medical equipment acting as some hideous hijab for her.