Quotes by Abhijit Naskar

It is high time that you break the shackles of separatism and with the glorious flames of love, compassion and humanism in heart, you assimilate the goodness from all around you. Let love and compassion reign over the modern human civilization and hatred be a matter of ancient history.

Be your own Guru.

Two married partners do not just live with each other, they live in each other, neurologically speaking.

When two people fall in love, they not only give up their genuine authority over their own lives, but also, they become mutual authorities of the collective life that they build together.

Do not seek for the best partner, but seek for the person who makes you a better version of yourself.

A healthy world is made of healthy nations. A healthy nation is made of healthy families. And a healthy family can only be raised on the foundation of a monogamous relationship.

A healthy marriage acts as the vessel of wellbeing and stability for both partners as well as the children.

Let me tell you a story. There was a student who asked his teacher, what is love? The teacher said go into the field and bring me the most beautiful flower. The student returned with no flower at hand and said, “I found the most beautiful flower in the field but I didnt pick it up for I might find a better one, but when I returned to the place, it was gone.”We always look for the best in life. When we finally see it, we take it for granted and after some time start expecting a better one, not knowing that its the best for us.

Cheating is an innate evolutionarily programmed desire, especially in men, but it is not a desire that cannot be controlled.

A human is the one, who would give up a thousand Cleopatras to be with the person he or she loves.

Cheating in relationship is a sign of self-regulation failure. When it happens ones, it is a mistake. When it happens twice, it is unfortunate. But when it happens thrice or more, it is a pattern indicating primitive, uncivilized inhuman behavior.

Try to respond to your partner instead of reacting.

Marriage is not a competition. Marriage is completion of two souls.

True love is born out of the pyre of two committed souls.

Monogamy is not a choice, it is a responsibility of a genuine human.

Either one is promiscuous or in a relationship - it cannot be both at the same time.

Sex is only a tool in love, not love itself.

Polygamy is about sex, whereas monogamy is about love.

Promoting promiscuity in this evolved and civilized society is actually like signing the Declaration, that says:“I hereby renounce my membership of humankind, since I am neither human nor kind. I declare that I no longer belong to the modern human species, i.e. the Homo sapiens. From now on I shall be counted among the swingers of the animal kingdom, such as the bonobo or montane vole. I am simply an arrogant philandering savage.

Polygamy is a luxury of the cave-people, and monogamy is an existential responsibility of the civilized society.